S1E3 Part 2: Desi Girls Decode Nobody Wants This : Dysfunctional families, Icks and more -

Netflix’s latest rom-com Nobody Wants This, starring Kristen Bell and Adam Brody, has taken audiences by storm. In this week’s episode of Let’s Pour & Ponder, Nikita and Pooja dive deep into why this show has struck such a chord with viewers, especially women, and what it reveals about relationships in today’s world.

Join the conversation as they explore the heartfelt story of Joanne and Noah—a couple who redefine love with their mature and endearing dynamic. This episode is packed with personal anecdotes, humour, and insightful discussions on everything from healthy communication to navigating the little ‘icks’ in relationships.

Consider this your “spoiler alert”. Beyond this point the blog post and the podcast discuss key events from the Netflix show – Nobody Wants This.

Key Highlights from the Episode

1. Joanne’s Family Dynamic:

Pooja and Nikita discuss Joanne’s upbringing and the subtle complexities of her family life. Despite an outwardly liberal vibe, there’s a clear undercurrent of dysfunction. Joanne’s parents’ choices influence how she and her sister Morgan approach their own relationships.

2. First Impressions & Real-Life Reflections:

Why does Nobody Wants This feel different from your typical rom-com? Nikita and Pooja highlight how Joanne and Noah’s relationship mirrors what many women desire in real life: simple, unforced love that thrives on respect and understanding. The reason this show is getting such hype and love is because women want to be understood the way Noah understands Joanne. And most women love a geeky guy who is in touch with his emotions and yet knows how to take charge.

3. Cringe Moments & Relationship ‘Icks’:

Ever sent a text you wish you could take back? Pooja and Nikita discuss the cringeworthy moments in the show, inspired by Joanne’s hilariously awkward “I think I might be pregnant” text. They also chat about relationship ‘icks’—those tiny annoyances that can become deal-breakers—and how to navigate them.

4. Pop Culture Elitism & ‘One-Upmanship’:

From Coldplay concerts to popular TV shows, the hosts humorously unpack how some people dismiss mainstream interests just to appear unique. Their take on pop culture elitism is as insightful as it is entertaining!

5. Healthy Communication: The Heart of Joanne & Noah’s Love:

At the core of Nobody Wants This lies a lesson in vulnerability and openness. Nikita and Pooja discuss how Joanne and Noah’s mature communication sets a standard that’s as aspirational as it is rare. They emphasize the importance of setting clear expectations and avoiding unspoken assumptions—a theme that’s relevant in every relationship.

Nobody Wants This – Our Favourite Takeaway: Love Can Be Simple

Nobody Wants This reminds us of the beauty in healthy, uncomplicated love. While Joanne and Noah’s relationship might seem idealistic, it’s also a powerful reminder that mutual respect, clear communication, and vulnerability can—and should—be the foundation of any partnership.